How to solve a problem, if nothing else works
What you can learn from the reason cats love sitting inside little boxes
Cats get comfort and security from enclosed spaces, which is why they love spending time in cardboard boxes. Cats use boxes as hiding places where predators can’t sneak up on them from the side or behind.
Cats don’t have in-built conflict resolution strategies, so they much prefer to hide from their problems.
If you’ve tried everything but failed to get your desired results, take a step back and observe from a distance. This may appear like you’re hiding away from your problems. But approaching problems heads-on is not always the best way. sometimes it's good to take a step back.
The best way to win a fight is by not being in it. The best way to win a war is by not having to fight.
You can learn assertive problem-solving skills, yet know when it’s best to step away from a problem and let time take care of it all.
Steps to take
- Always do your best to anticipate and prevent problems. If you pay close attention you’ll realize no problem comes out of the blue, there are always warning signs, don’t ignore them.
- If the problem proceeds beyond the warning stage and fully manifests itself, It’s okay to take a step back when necessary. When you deliberately take a step back, you will feel less anxiety and frustration.
- Know how to ask for help and let other people throw in different perspectives.
- Communication goes a long way.
